Thursday, November 12, 2009

OH NO, MR. BILL!

Someone turned 43 around our house. And do not think for ONE minute that it was me. I'm way younger than that. I don't think Bill minds getting older. Maybe it's because the guy doesn't seem to age. And, if you ask me, he just keeps getting cuter and cuter.

We celebrated my Billy today with some of his favorite things.

A lunch date at Noodles...
Dinner at Red Robin with his peeps...
Switchfoot's brand new CD...
The Flirty...
Ice Cream (guess who else liked it too)...

Happy Birthday, Babe. Want you. Love you. Need You.

addendum: I was tossing and turning in the night because I felt bad about Bill's birthday. I didn't feel like I celebrated him enough. I felt like (other than the Switchfoot CD) the gift we got him wasn't something he wanted (it was clothes). Plus I said two really insensitive things to him that day. I asked for forgiveness and he granted it, but I kept replaying my rudeness in my head. And to top it all off, when he came back from his late night meeting on campus I was asleep on the couch, not welcoming him home with birthday wishes and kisses.

So this morning I went to tell him how sorry I was and before I could get anything out he hugged me and said "Thank you for making my birthday special." Once again, this man has shown me what God is like. Instead of focusing on what I didn't do, he focused on the fact that we were together. He was grateful for the gifts I gave him in love. And, best of all, he was forgiving...even when I couldn't forgive myself. So now, instead of thinking "I should have done more", I am relishing the fact that I have a love like this. Exactly what I want to do in my relationship with God.

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9 comments:

Mindee said...

You got to go out for lunch and dinner? I'm thinking it was your birthday too!

Jillienne said...

Happy Birthday!!

I can totally relate to the last part. I feel like that A LOT, Bri is so much more at peace then I am most of the time. I keep trying to do better but it is hard sometimes!

"Are These Kids All Yours?" said...

I have chills....thankful for the men we have in our lives that are sooo wonderful!

Kimmie said...

Sounds like a nice celebration.

Nice that you are so sensitive to what you say and do...that in itself shows you care and are moldable in the Holy Spirit's hands.

Kimmie
mama to 7
one homemade and 6 adopted

Christina said...

The birthday stuff made me cry! It sounds like in the end it was a very special day.

asian~treasures said...

Happy Birthday, Bill!!!

Christie said...

I have that same shirt that you are wearing in the pictures!!! I actually have it layed out to wear tomorrow! got in on clearance at target for like $3. Happy Birthday!

Amy said...

Happy Birthday, Bill! Sounds like a terrific day! Believe me, you do more for the hubby's birthday than I ever do for mine!

BTW, I got a picture of your daughter today with a few others for the 60's party. I kind went overboard with Madison's attire. Did I mention, I love costumes and themes?

Kristin said...

Yeah for Bill! He is an awesome man of God. I just saw the give water link on another blog today and made a donation--what a great organization and mission!

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