Sunday, August 30, 2009

Michael W. Smith was right...

Friends are friends forever. And I feel like I have the best friends ever.

From decorating the house upon our return. To providing meals. To sewing crib bedding. To calls and visits and notes and gifts. Even a gift for the dog! We have been overwhelmed by how our friends have celebrated Luci May with us.

Last weekend, friends threw a shower for me and the Lulu. Thank you Mindee, Rachel, LeAnne, and Robrenna. It couldn't have been in a more beautiful setting, Mindee's back yard...
It was so delightful to be with friends from the neighborhood and my kid's school along with their daughters...
My mother-in-law, sister and niece were there too (Gunga was sick), but sadly, this is the only picture I have of them "lurking" in the background...
Luci was getting some love from another Ethiopian princess, Kate....
Her family is from Ethiopia, but live here in the States now. They have been such a blessing in our lives.

The food was incredible...
And everyone knows, I don't turn away gifts...
I loved all the gifts, but one had sentimental value. Robrenna gave me a Willowtree figurine that she had painted so it was me and Luci...
For those of you Ethiopia adoptive families reading this, her tip is DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME. Unless you are confident in your painting skills, that is.

If she was trying to make me cry, it totally worked...

This was the reaction when...
we dropped the beloved figurine. Thankfully, it didn't break. Then you would have really seen me cry!

Not to be outdone, Lulu left a little present of her own...
Stealth spitting up is a talent of hers.

We both had a great time...
While I was totally energized by the whole event, she was wiped out...
It can be tiring to be adored.

That weekend also brought a visit from Aunt Deb, as my kids call her. She's not really their aunt. But she's close enough. Deb came from Denver to meet Lulu and enter into this experience with us...
She came a long way to see Lulu, but didn't get to hold her until right before she was getting on the plane. I broke down and handed the baby over...for a brief minute. Judging by the above picture, I think Luci was glad Aunt Deb came too.

She and I, along with Le Anne, have been friends since college and were reunited yet again last weekend...
We have lived through college days, a streaking incident, 11 babies between us, Alzheimer's, MS, and breast cancer. Our friendship of 20 years has known lots of late night talks, many tears and even more laughter. It is a treasure indeed.

Bill and I have often said that while our salary may not reflect it, we are filthy rich due to the friendships that we have been blessed with. This post reflects some of that undeserved, yet much appreciated relational affluence in our lives.

15 comments:

Amy said...

That was a very fun shower to go to. I am glad I was invited (Maddy too!).

Anonymous said...

oh missy, I just love your family's story! What a precious gift Luci is! So thankful she has such wonderful parents and siblings.

Mindee@ourfrontdoor said...

And you give back in abundance. :)

Rebecca said...

I LOVE IT!!!!! What an awesome shower, and the Willow Tree figurine is COMPLETELY touching!!! How sweet!!! God is GOOD!!!!

Paul and DeeDee said...

They are 14 months apart....keeps me VERY busy:) Loved your shower pics!

"Are These Kids All Yours?" said...

How Beautiful!!!! Hey, we have painted those figurines too!!! Hey, gotta do something to make it fit your family :)

mhkesler said...

so so sweet! friends are the best!

Kim said...

What a beautiful post for cuch a beautiful celebration. What a blessing to be "filthy rich in friendship!". And Luci is just adorable!
Love & Blessings from Hong Kong,
Kim

Kristi J said...

what a fun time and Luci looks adorable..i love that smile :) kj

Sarah said...

What a beautiful gift of friendship. thank you for splashing me today in God's faithfulness as we continue to journey towards our own adoption. Our Ethiopian hugs and kisses are waiting.

Blessings from Costa Rica,
Sarah Dawn

Tracey said...

Friends are truly one of life's greatest blessings.
I had such a wonderful time at the shower and was so glad to be a part of it.

Anonymous said...

So fun, we both had showers this wkend! http://www.gracelaced.com is my dear friend Ruth's blog. I like to surround myself with talented friend such as this, esp at times like this- careful if you check her blog, you will fall in love with her....

Jana said...

So awesome!! It's good to be loved!
fraserfive

Michael and Michelle said...

I bet you will be going back!! These sweet Ethiopians are too much fun to just have one:) We are having such a blast with our kiddos....I don't want it to ever end!!
Your daughter is SUPER CUTE!

Michelle

sandy said...

oh my - i just stumbled onto your blog. I had heard from my aunt that "missy just adopted a baby and Deb is coming back to see the baby and visit missy". How cool to see Deb on your blog - (Deb is married to my cousin Brent!!)