Sunday, May 31, 2009

Smitten

Do you believe in love at first sight?

If I didn't before, I do now.

We got our referral call! She is a precious baby girl. And we are smitten.

I'm sorry I can't post a picture of Her Loveliness or give you more details. You'll just have to take my completely biased word for it. She's breathtaking. We are captivated by her beauty. Captivated by her smile. We are captivated that we get the opportunity to love her. It takes my breath away.

The call came on Thursday afternoon. I was getting my haircut. It annoyed me that my cell kept ringing. The third time my stylist asked, "Do you need to get that?"
Me: "Naaaa!"
Even though I spent Monday through Wednesday (rather unsuccessfully) trying desperately not to sit by the phone begging it to ring, it didn't even enter my mind that it could be THE CALL at that point. The third call was Bill (this I knew from the "I Got You Babe" ring tone) so I called him first as I was walking out. He told me to get my bootie home. Those weren't his exact words (if you know my husband, you already knew that.) What followed, my friends, was the longest 10 minute car ride of my life. But a sweet 10 minutes of joy, anticipation and fear all mixed together with just a touch of frenzied driving.

When I got home we called Julie and received the email with the information and pictures of Her Loveliness. Here we are seeing her face for the first time...

And here are our kids seeing her picture for the first time...

That night as Tate was going to bed I asked him if he had any fears now that the day we've been waiting for had arrived. He said, "No. I love my baby." Then I asked him, "What do you think it's going to be like for these months that we have to wait more and be without her?" His answer floored me..."More time for me to spend loving my baby."

Jack is quite taken with her as well, though in true form of the baby in the family about to be de-throned he said later that night, "Do we have to keep talking about the baby?"

Emmie, who hasn't always been sure what this adoption will mean for her, has a new perspective. "Now I'm so excited to share my room with her!" she said. What a difference it is for adoption to be about a person, not a concept. A real, live little person we are all so excited to meet and love and call our own.

"Give thanks to the Lord for He is good; His love endures forever." Psalm 118:1

Stay tuned...

39 comments:

Tisha Alexander said...

Congrats!!!! I am so excited for you guys. Those pictures are priceless.

asian~treasures said...

Yes, Yes, YES!!! We, too, believe in love at first sight...even love before you've seen those first precious pictures.
We're beyond excited for you guys! After you called yesterday, & I told Micah, he kept singing, "Our friends have a baby. Our friends have a baby."
We can't wait to see pictures of your sweet, new baby girl!! : ) How precious that her name means: BLESSINGS! : )
GOD IS GOOD all the time.
Our love, joy & prayers as you wait these next months...we totally get the waiting, so I'm willing to chat if you need to...

Sheri, David, Micah & Adria

Jana said...

YaY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So excited for you guys!! That phone call is the BEST!!!

Carissa Martin said...

YAAAAAAAY!!! So many blessings your way. I'm so overjoyed for you and your family! I love the pictures. I love the blog... I love little Blessings!

Eastiopians said...

Congratulations!!! I love the pictures! They gave me goose-bumps...I can't wait for the call. Absolutely amazing. Congrats again!

Theresa

Keeslermom said...

I can't believe I won't be there to see!!!!! I'm all teared up! Congratulations to ALL of you!

Mindee@ourfrontdoor said...

And now I am crying again. This is wonderful. The wonderfullest. :)

Julie said...

YAY!!! I'm super thrilled for you - and I, too, have goosebumps. What a great post - and great pictures! Do you know when you'll get to travel? Or will someone bring her to you? I'm so happy for you!!

Mandy said...

Yes...I believe in love at first site! I'm so happy you got the call! I'll pray this next wait goes smoothly and quickly for you.

"Are These Kids All Yours?" said...

WOW!!!! How blessed and exciting! Prepare for God to blow your mind even more.....enjoy waiting impatiently, planning, packing, and just preparing for your special little one!!!

The Redman's said...

Congratulations!!! What an exciting time. :) Praying for a speedy wait for court and travel!!

Blog Shmog said...

Oh wow!! Congratulations!! That is so fun. :) I can't wait to see her cute little face!

Amy said...

Congratulations! I can't wait to see a picture of this little girl! I saw a photo of Mindee's new nephew and he's a doll!

Unknown said...

Congratulations! What a wonderful moment for your family.

Melissa said...

congrats!!! the pic of you seeing your baby brought tears to my eyes ... then reading about loving the baby ... that really brought them!

cheery-o's said...

Oh, my, those pictures are so precious! I am so excited for you all. That little baby is one lucky little lady to have such a wonderful family who loves her so much already. We will continue to keep you in our prayers as you continue on this wonderful journey. Can't wait to hear more!

Erin Sager said...

So happy for you......Celebrating with you....

Clark Family said...

Congratulations Kollars! So excited for you to meet your sweet baby girl! The pictures of you seeing her brought tears to my eyes...what an amazing experience for your family!

Katie said...

Congratulations!! I can't wait to see a picture of your beautiful baby girl! I am so happy for you. :)

Hilary Marquis said...

Congratulations!!! I think you owe me a new computer as I may have shorted out the keyboard crying buckets o' tears ;) and I am NOT waiting until Saturday!

Hilary Marquis said...

by the way..it was 2 years ago today that we got information on Anara!

Aubrey said...

Congratulations! So excited for you! :)

Kristin said...

I'm so excited for you guys. I can't wait to see her and to meet her. I'm so thankful to walk this journey with you as you add another Kollar to the clan! Praise the Lord!

I love you guys,
Kristin

amy kieser said...
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amy kieser said...

Hey Missy...I figured out how to get your blog to let me on! Yay!!!

Anonymous said...

I want to come over to your house so I can see her!!

I guess I'll probably have to wait until August when you get back from your trip. I'm so excited for you! This little girl couldn't land in a better family. God has definitely ordained this- so thankful for your love for her already!

The B Family said...

So happy for your family. Praying for a speedy, successful court date!
Christina

Brian and Autumn said...

So awesome! That call is such a great experience. I am so happy for you guys!

Anonymous said...

Missy - I'm thrilled for you guys & I can't wait to meet her. I'll be praying for you to get a quick court date. We had Mussie's referral May 30, 2008 and got him home in August, so it's doable. Regardless, God has perfect timing!
I love Jack's comment. Ella often asks if everything has to be about Mussie! :) If you need some real-life Ethiopian hugs, bring Jack on by for a playdate!

Amy

Julie said...

Wow! Last week was my most favorite week ever! (;
Congratulations on your beautiful daughter!! Those pics of you guys seeing her are beautiful.

Anonymous said...

wow, we are so, so excited for you guys. how amazing! i can't believe you finally get to have a tiny face in mind when you are saying your prayers...what a blessing!

Carrie said...

I have tears (I am not a crier!!) I am so happy for your family and your husband's face when seeing her face for the first time is priceless!!! Keep us informed, Can't wait to hear more and see pictures of you and your daughter!!!

heidi said...

WOW! That is AWESOME!!! How long do you have to wait?

LaRose Crew said...

sooooo sweet.

Michael said...

WooooHoooo!!! I am so excited for you guys!!!!

Michelle

www.mfamilyblog.blogspot.com

neely said...

congrats! i wonder if i saw her last week???

Anonymous said...

Absolutely THRILLED for you!!
Crying as I read this post!!
Congrats! Congrats!

Christina said...

This brought tears to my eyes. What a moment. Your (both of you) expressions are priceless. How awesome that one day you will be able to show her, this is when we first saw you and fell in love!

Eryn said...

HOLY COW, HOW THE HECK DID I MISS THIS POST??!!??

I just saw on today's post, the little feet, and I was like, "WHAAAT?"

How did I miss this! Great news...I'm SOOOO happy for you!